Avoid Making Mealtime a Battleground

Battles over food often occur when parents areat his growth. Check the growth chart at his next
too concerned about what, how much and whenvisit with the doctor. Is the upward curve on the
their children eat. Avoid making mealtime aweight and height chart steady? If so, he's eating
battleground. Your baby is testing hisenough.o Look at his energy level. Is he moving
independence. This means that he'll try to doaround all day? Does he sleep well and wake
things his way-not yours. Relax and accept yourhappy? Is he interested in new things? If he's
baby's unusual food choices. As he matures, youractive, he's eating enough.o Look at his milk intake.
baby will follow your lead more easily.o Don't insistIs he breastfeeding eagerly or drinking 24 to 32
on eating foods in a certain order. Resist sayingounces of formula a day? If so, most of his
dessert is a treat for "plate cleaners" only. Thisnutritional needs are being met.
power struggle makes dessert more desirable toUsing a cup
your 11-month-old.o Instead, serve a nutritiousWeaning is a gradual process. It moves babies
and balanced meal. Let your baby eat it infrom a bottle or breastfeeding to drinking from a
whatever order he chooses.o Don't restrict foodcup. For bottle-fed babies, weaning to a cup
combination. If your baby wants to dip his toast inusually happens around a baby's first birthday.
pudding or mix his spinach with rice, let him. He'sNow that your baby is feeding himself, it's a good
trying out new tastes. He's eating nutritious food.time to offer a cup with his meals. Using a cup
Try to respect his harmless investigation.o Don'twith two handles will improve your baby's
force your baby to eat. For example, carrots arecoordination skills. Gradually substitute a cup for
an important part of a baby's diet. But even athe bottle at the noon meal. Once your baby
healthy food like a carrot is not worth a battle.adjusts to that, do the same at the morning meal.
Offer him a choice of healthy foods. Follow hisThe evening bottle will probably be the last to go.
cues about when he has had enough.Your baby is used to the bedtime bottle as a
Eating too little?comfortable, secure ritual. Try substituting water
Do you think your baby is not eating enough?in the bottle for the formula. Then just offer your
Relax. Offer nutritious foods at regular times in ababy a cup of water before bed. If you continue
pleasant atmosphere. No baby will starve himself!to hold and cuddle at bedtime, weaning will go
To reassure yourself, check these points.o Lookmore smoothly.