| Are you trying to figure out how to reconcile a | | | | change and the relationship may not be strong |
| breakup? | | | | enough to withstand the changes. While this may |
| Unfortunately, you are not alone in this situation. | | | | be a huge blow to many people, you should take |
| Figuring out how to reconcile a breakup is | | | | heart and realize that hope is not lost. |
| something that people like us want to know how | | | | Here are some general guidelines to dealing with a |
| to do. | | | | relationship gone sour. |
| I know where you are right now because I have | | | | - Try to clear your head and stay calm. |
| been there. I was in a relationship for a little | | | | - Discuss the situation honesty and in a sensitive |
| over two years and everything seemed fine. | | | | manner. |
| Then one day, out of the blue, he took me to | | | | - Be willing to take responsibility and apologize if it |
| dinner and told me he wanted to see other | | | | is called for. |
| people. I was devastated but there was no way | | | | - Be willing to compromise. |
| I was going to cause a scene. I had no choice | | | | - Acknowledge that it may be a good idea to |
| but to agree with him. We both moved on but | | | | take a break for awhile. |
| we kept in touch. Over the next six months, he | | | | - Let your ex go and move on but stay in touch. |
| started calling me more often and finally | | | | Be sure and follow the advice above. If you |
| confessed to me that he just freaked out | | | | don't and you end up causing a scene or stalking |
| because things seemed to be getting too | | | | your ex, there will be no chance of a reconciliation. |
| serious. Long story short, we ended up getting | | | | There is no guarantee that you will be able to |
| back together. | | | | reconcile with your ex. Some relationships have |
| Do you really want to get back with your ex? | | | | been damaged beyond repair by the time a |
| Breakups happen all the time for a lot of different | | | | breakup occurs. |
| reasons. Sometimes there is no way to get | | | | But in order to reconcile with your ex, we have |
| back to where you were before you broke up | | | | to figure out what the heck separates the |
| and you have to move on. | | | | couples that get back together from those that |
| But, I’ll let you in on a little secret . . . Couples | | | | weren’t able to make it work out? |
| reunite ALL THE TIME, even amidst the most | | | | So, in order to get your ex back, you need to |
| HOPELESS of situations! | | | | figure out the pieces to this puzzle. To find out |
| Relationships are really notoriously tricky things | | | | how to put the puzzle back together again. |
| and sometimes. People change, circumstances | | | | |