Preparing Food With Love - An Exercise in Mindfulness

I love food. I don't mean that I love it a little, Ithink about are more things that are making me
mean I LOVE it a lot. And, over the years, I haveunhappy, then that is what I am putting into my
realized how something seemingly as simple asmeal. Have you ever wondered why when two
cooking can make all the difference in a meal andpeople make the exact same recipe, it tastes
in your environment.different? Consider the idea that both people,
Thinking back to when I was a young girl, I havethough following the same recipe, were in two
the fondest memories of cooking with mydifferent emotional places when they made it.
parents, both of who were great cooks, and stillSo how can you work with this idea? Let me
are. My Mom was a great cook and baker. Shesuggest a few things below to try the next time
made everything from home-made bread, toyou are making a meal because remember that
cookies and pies, as well as hearty salads andcooking is also an act of creativity.
soups that would warm you from the inside out.Make sure you are in a good mood when you're
There wasn't anything she couldn't do in thecooking. Even if all you are doing is cutting up
kitchen, and she always did it with the mostvegetables for a salad, do it from a good place,
organic, healthy, herbal ingredients she could getthink positive thoughts, focus on something you
her hands on. My Dad was the expert at Italianfeel good about or play your favorite music.
and Armenian food. Taught by his parents whoCreate a sense of beauty while you eat. Whether
had a restaurant when he was a boy, he couldyou live alone or have many people in your
make a spaghetti dish or Koofta that would makefamily, you can always create a beautiful table.
your taste buds sing.Instead of eating out of a to-go box, eat your
I always wanted to help them cook, and theyfood on a pretty plate, put a flower on the table,
always let me. At an early age I began learninglight a candle, use nice glassware. Play calming
the techniques of cooking, for example knowingmusic while you eat and give a word of thanks
when to knead the dough, how long to let it rise,prior to eating. Practice thinking about positive
and how to be gentle so that the yeast wouldthings while you eat or talking about positive
respond. I learned that slow cooking wouldthings with those you are eating with. Allow your
enhance the flavor of a tomato sauce and thatmeal to be an intentional and enjoyable event.
overcooking things would remove all the goodSlow down. We are all used to eating so quickly
enzymes.that our bodies don't even get a chance to digest
But most valuable, was learning the importance ofour food properly. Practice taking your time while
cooking with a particular mindset. What I mean iseating.
that when a person cooks with love, the foodEat healthy, organic food whenever possible, in
tastes differently than when it's prepared out of aorder to avoid any sprays or pesticides as these
feeling of unhappiness or resentment. I decidedtoo have a negative affect on the body.
early on to cook when I was in a better mood,Avoid fast food and microwaving. By the time
because the food carried the energy of myeither of these end up in your mouth, all the
thinking, feeling self. Now this might sound strange,enzymes and life of the food is gone.
but let me explain a little further. Gregg Braden, aEnergetically, this is nowhere near as healing as
New York Times best selling author who isnon-processed food.
internationally renowned as a pioneer in bridgingEat live food whenever possible. Eating fresh fruits
science and spirituality, discusses the now scientificand vegetables is like eating sunlight when it
fact that we all have an electro-magnetic fieldcomes to healthy eating.
around our hearts. And very simply stated, whatMost of all, enjoy your meal. Food is one of the
this means is that however we are feeling,gifts we get to enjoy while we are here in the
whatever our emotions or state of mind, thatphysical body, so use it to honor your body,
feeling is emanated out through our hearts andchoose wisely what you put into your mouth as
into our environment. This has been able to bewell as how much you eat. Remember that "your
measured, and I'm sure that we all know thestomach is the size of your fist, not a wheel
feeling of being around someone and immediatelybarrel" as Wayne Dyer says.
getting a sense about them.Drink a lot of water. It works to cleanse the
As it relates to food as shown in the movie, Likebody. Remember that we are made up of
Water for Chocolat, our emotions have a direct75-80% water.
effect on that which we are cooking with ourRemember, how we do anything is how we do
own hands. If I cook a pie from scratch, and Ieverything. This is a practice in mindfulness, and it
have beautiful music playing and I am happycan be applied to every area of your life. When
about cooking, knowing I will get to share this piewe come from a place of intention, love and
with people I care about, then I am puttingkindness, our hearts expand, and our lives
positive energy into my cooking. If I am preparingbecome more rich and full.
a meal but I'm in an unhappy mood and all I can