Stress Management and Creating Balance

The World Health Organization calls stress "theIn mastering stress, you have to figure out what
health epidemic of the 21st century." Stressyou are doing that contributes to your problem
resulting in illness is the causative factor underlyingchallenge and change it. The four categories of
more than 70% of all visits to the family doctor,change include: change your behaviour, change
medical doctors suggest. What is stress? We allyour thinking, change your lifestyle choices, and/or
talk about it but what does 'stress' mean and howchange the situations you are in. Symptoms of
does it affect our bodies?overstress include fatigue, aches and pains,
Dr. Hans Selye, who first noted and described theanxiety, problems sleeping, depression, and lack of
concept of stress, defines stress as "thejoy in your life
non-specific response of the body to any demandPractical Steps to Stress Management and
made upon it." Stress is neither good nor bad. TheCreating Balance
effect of the stress is not determined by the1. Make your life regular like 'clock work.' Go to
stress itself, rather it is determined by how webed and get up at the same time each day.
handle the stress.2. Give yourself a break today.
Effects of Stress3. Say 'No' more often when other people want
1. "Emergency Response" The emergencyyour time. This includes social engagements, the
response mechanism activates with a physiologicalfamily dinner on Christmas, Thanksgiving, etc.
change when people believe they are in physical4. Postpone making any changes in your living
or mortal danger. Pupils dilate, blood pressureenvironment if you have been coping with undue
increases, and the production of stress hormonesstress. Change of any kind is stressful and limiting
increase. The body prepares within seconds toit until later is a good strategy if you are under a
respond, which is known as the 'fight or flight'lot of pressure.
syndrome. The adrenal glands pour out adrenaline5. Reduce the number of hours you spend at
and the production of other hormones iswork or school. If you are a work-a-holic or
increased by the quickly reactingschool-a-holic you need to reduce the energy
pituitary-adrenal-cortical system of the brain.drain on your body. TAKE SOME TIME OFF.
This is a healthy, adaptive response to immediate6. Nutritional eating habits and eating small meals
danger but if continually activated, this emergencyhelps to keep your blood sugar stabilised. Many
response may cause a constantlypeople reach for something high in sugar content
higher-than-normal level of hormone productionwhen feeling stressed which compounds the
that can eventually cause physical wear-and-tearproblem. Eat more vegetables.
on the body. Health problems related to this7. Rest your mind, as mind activities alleviate
constant high level of response includestress. These mind activities include reading,
hypertension, headaches, ulcers, heart disease,working on a craft, listening to music, playing a
and increased vulnerability to diabetes and colitis.musical instrument, meditation, self-relaxation,
2. "General Adaptation Syndrome" In studies,dancing, and biofeedback.
Selye came to believe that diseases of adaptation8. Have a worry time if you must worry. When
such as hypertension could be produced byyou find yourself worrying over a problem, set
abnormal or excessive reaction to stress. Theaside a time (I suggest to my students 7:30pm
body would increase its supply of hormones inon Tuesday night) and then put off worrying until
order to be ready for action to stress. Over athat time. Chances are you will not even
prolonged period of time, excessive stress leadsremember what you were stressing yourself
to distress and the accompanying physical,about.
emotional, mental, and spiritual health problems.9. Book time for yourself. In your daily or weekly
Contributing factors to distress include a) yourschedule book time first for yourself and then the
attitude to life and b) your mood (optimistic orother activities you are involved in. Don't let
pessimistic). Both help to create the atmosphereanything, except an emergency, usurp your
that assists your defence system in repairingcommitment to yourself.
small wounds, bruises, and infections. This is also10. Have a massage or another form of self-care
the system that tries to destroy strange cellsactivity.
such as those of cancer, including leukaemia.